Teaching Kids to Get Organized

Posted on 20 January 2009

Little Kids at your home will give your house a much disheveled look. Kids never get tired and even though it’s a lot of fun having them at your home, they will test your patience with their boundless energy. You may think that you have already cleared up the mess that they have created in one corner of the house, but there they are somewhere else, strewing their toys all over the place and making your home look like a hurricane struck area.

It is not only the toys that are spreading everywhere. Their extremely short attention spans means that if they are doing something like working on their drawings and crayons, and if something else attracts their attention, they will just leave the floor or table strewn with their earlier activities and move on to whatever has distracted them. This is very true especially if the television just starts showing their favorite program.

Parents expect that their children will learn to organized and collect their own things and keep it in proper places when they‘re finished playing. If they are trying to put on their shoes before going to the birthday party next door, they will decide on what they are going to wear and they will just get it up and go away, leaving you to get the other pairs together to keep where they have should been.

Children need to be trained if you want them to learn on how to organize their things. It is possible for them to learn on how to be organized. If you succeed in training your kids to be organized, it will make your life easier and also lay a foundation for the children to be organized throughout their life. And, would it be nice if they learn to pick up their own belongings.

Start to teach your child to be organized.

The right time to start teaching the kids is when he has learned on how to take the toys out from where they are kept. Once he has learned that it is not too difficult to remove things from his toy cupboard or container, teach him the right way to keep back the toys after he has finished playing with them.

Keeping them back in the proper place may not be easy for a child to learn at first, but persisting with the same routine of keeping back his toys every day, will ultimately teach him that he has to do it, once he is finished playing. And once it becomes a habit you would be happy with his change behavior.

What else can he be taught?

Children always look to their elders and parents as role models, and are likely to be quite pleased to do things that they do. If you have the habit of always keeping your things neatly in place, it would not require too much of persuasion to make him follow your example. If you are fastidious about always picking up your shoes and placing them on the shoe rack, it would be easy to insist that the child does the same.

Children require constant guidance. They may forget the instructions that have been given to them if they got distracted, but a gentle reminder without raising your voice, will get the results that you desire. Be patient and do not get frustrated just because you need to repeat the instructions.

Check if you can convert the keeping of his playthings into a game, with a song or dance attached. If the child associates the activity with something funny or pleasant, they will be quite eager to organize their things. No raised voices, no admonitions and definitely no scaring or beating the child. That is just a wrong thing to do.

If you succeed in organizing your child to look after his own things, life would be less stressful for you and it will help the child as he grows up.

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