Raising a child in today’s world is hard enough for two people. When there is only a single parent the challenges can be downright overwhelming. Combining the responsibility of earning a living with the sole responsibility for raising a child can seem like an insurmountable challenge at times, but there are some ways to make what may be the toughest job on earth a little bit easier.

Create Your Own Support Structure
A few generations ago most of us lived in close proximity to many members of our extended families, but no more. These days families are spread all around the country, and in some cases all around the world. This geographic spread has made it more difficult for single parents to create the type of support structure that moms and dads used to take for granted.

When grandma and grandpa lived right down the street it was easy to deal with a work emergency by simply asking them to check in on the kids after school. When grandma lives across the country that option no longer exists. That is why it is important for every parent – not just single parents – to build up a strong support structure. That support structure can consist of friends, coworkers and others. The only criteria is that those chosen be responsible and reliable. Having a strong support structure in place means having an individual who can be called upon when those inevitable problems arise. From problems with day care to problems with the family car, those in your network can help out when things go awry.

Choose a Family Friendly Employer
These days most of us do not have the luxury of hand picking an employer, but there are some things job seekers can do to increase their chances of finding a family friendly boss. A number of large corporations have gone out of their ways to accommodate the needs of working parents-providing flex time and job sharing and even allowing employees to work from home on a full or part time basis.

Finding such an employer can take some time, but having a Doss who understands the pressures and commitments single parents must face will make life a lot easier. Of course it is important for parents to do their part on the job-putting in extra hours when possible and always doing a stellar job for their employers. No matter what the state of the economy companies are reluctant to let great employers go, and those companies may be very willing to adjust schedules and make other accommodations to keep those star performers on the job.

Always Expect the Unexpected
With single parenting no two days will be the same. It is important for parents to always expect the unexpected when dealing with their children and their lives. Even the smallest problem can throw the day off track, so single parents need to learn to roll with the punches.